Your son is in the midst of 8th lord Moon/Chandra Maha-Dasha and Antara of 6th (& 11th) lord of Roga-Sthana Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha. In my humble opinion, these are not the best of times for him.
It would perhaps make sense to look at collective/shared Karma. So, please feel free to share your (along with your husband's) birth-details.
Take care...