Q)Are you elder to him by how many years ?Are you and him born of same parents ?How close is elder sister to him ?
A) I am his elder sister , older than him by 9 years . same parents . i was close to him for few years but not anymore . he hates me this moment
Q) What about his mother and her relatives, for help and guidance ?
A) he loves mother but not her relatives , they are very selfish , he wasnt close to anyone on mothers side , hated them all . They are selfish people
who would never do anything or help anyone who is struggling . Relatives who he was close with was people on Fathers side , They are capable of helping someone who is struggling as they are little well off , and he received some indirect help from them , when i saw that coming i thought it would be a change in his life , but no it stopped there and they are not really for recounciliation . they helped once and forgot
from what I understand about him as a person who saw him growing , who knows his personality . Guidance or Psychological Counselling or Therapies wont help him much , he has been this way all his life ,(even on the strongest possible psychiatric medicines , he was still depressed , so i should say
being depressive or depressive trait is part of his soul ) My guess is what he needs now is a help or a helping hand or luck some sort of for a change in his life , i am not capable of brining changes in others life . i have asked people, i know my friends and colleagues begged people for any sort of help or job for him that would bring a change in his life .
he hates me as of now because he says i am not trying enough for him , recently what he wants in life is escape to another country he keeps talking about Africa he says his destiny is Africa .he says he would have a new begginning somewhere abroard and strange , during his teen years he wanted to go Europe or the Americas , somewhere he could "Enjoy" life . and then he realised he has "nothing" to get accepted to these countries . I have a friend who runs business in an African country named Senegal . he wants me to speak to my friend to help him for a job or something in Senegal .
my friend knows my brother as well , so i cannot ask for my brother who is not mentally fit for a job . so thats the cause of his hate towards me
he says i am not trying hard for him .
So for a positive change in his life , he needs luck in life , our family ( My father , My mother me and My brother ) all are devoid of luck , the worst is my brother ,
I know him inside out , so i too wish him a peaceful exit , rather than sitting at home doing nothing living all his life .
My brother and Me are 80 percent similar , the same insecurities personality wise same traits of depression what differentiates me from my brother is i am a firm believer in God , my belief / faith helps me get over crisises in life . Where as he is not , he is a non believer .