AVPD diagnosis,the prospects to overcome or improve,how long could last?

[Sijju]

DOB 20 SEPT 1986
TOB 5 25 AM
POB GREECE/THESSALONIKI

Doctor diagnosed that i suffer from a personality disorder called avoidant personality disorder,plus depression,low self esteem,lack of self condfidence.It started to triggering since i retired last december my job and changed for another into a new workplace.

Got antidepressants and psychotherapy,the first put me weight so now i'm overweight and i have to deal with fight back this,the second didn't helped me so far(CBT) and thinking change doctor or stop,continue only the meds.

I'm really suffering,i had bad experience in my previous workplace,gossip,slander,badmouthing,hidden enemies,supervisor that understimated me comparing to my colleague. Retiring due to lockdowns,made me fall in deep depression,social anxiety and even if new job has better salary,i'm not feel comfortale again,hiding,isolating.

Will i escape from this disorder,i cannot find joy,satisfaction,i recieve mocking,gossiping against me,in new workplace too.

Tell me,how you see the whole situation,the disorder,mental health,current career future.Thanx

[Buddy]

Hi,

I've had a chance to cast your birth-chart and below are a few notes from my observation that are relevant for your query and this thread:
1. Udaya Lagna is placed in Simha Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu.
2. Lagna Lord Sun/Ravi is placed in the 2nd house of Kanya Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Uttara-Phalguni Nakshatra, ruled by Sun/Ravi himself. He is conjunct a powerfully placed Mercury/Budha, in his Swasthana and Moola-Trikona and they are caught in the Ketu-Rahu axis. For the records, Lagna Lord Sun/Ravi is rather weak - both in Shadbala and Vimsopaka Bala and is in Mrita Avasta.
3, Moon/Chandra is the 12th lord and is uncomfortable placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana, in the Lunar Constellation of Revati Nakshatra, ruled by Mercury/Budha. To Make matters worse, he is closely conjunct Rahu in the same Lunar Constellation.
4. Mutual aspect and Sukshma/Sookshma Parivarthana Yoga, at the Nakshatra level between a strong Mercury/Budha and a weak or ill-placed Moon/Chandra, when both are afflicted is not really preferred. They are indicating the mind is not really in sync or not able to keep pace with the inherent intelligence. This is similar to a local analogy - that of a cart being pulled by a Bullock on the one side (wanting to pull to the cart out of ditches/dirt) and a Buffalo on the other (forcing the cart to the ditches/dirt)...
5. Thereafter the presence of a malefic Saturn/Shani-dev in the 4th house of homely comforts and aspecting the 6th, 10th and 1st houses, may not be helping.

In summary, I'm inclined to think the above factors are at the core of the issue... although it is hard for me to accept the situation warrants Psychotherapy or anti-Psychotic medication.

PS: Sun/Ravi Maha-Dasha lasts until end of January 2025. Subsequent Maha-Dasha is that of Moon/Chandra.

Take care...

[Sijju]

Yeah,my situation needs meds and therapy,it's a chronic personality disorder that just i was fear to deal with so many years,your conclusion is that issues will continue till the end of 2025? So,4 years more of emotional pain and the other issues such as low self esteem,lack of self confidence? What road should follow to stop this mess? My pain is that people understimate me,mocking and gossiping me,call me weirdo,shy,quite and not so many good things,in my workplaces i suffered so far,so tend to isolate and say just leave me alone.

[Buddy]

Hi,

Next year, with transit of Saturn/Shani-dev to Aquarius or Kumbha Rashi, you'll be starting your Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra and thereafter, the transits of Saturm/Shani-dev and Rahu to Meena Rashi might be challenging. Onset of weak Moon/Chandra Maha-Dasha will be challenging too.

Take care...

[Buddy]

Hi,

If you don't mind, would you be kind enough to provide some insight into your sexual relationships (if any) and /or sexual desires. Also, let me/us know if you've travelled overseas/foreign land, along with your experiences. In any case, share your thoughts (if any) with regards to travel.

Take care...

[Sijju]

I don't have sex experiences and relationships too so far,i'm not into traveling much,lack of friends and lack of time didn't let me travel.I want so much to make a relationship with a girl but i'm extremely shy and inexperience fearing will be ashamed.Here comes the symptoms of my disorder.

[Avtar]

Hello Mam,
1)Do you think situations which will never happen, and are in fear due to it(Overthinking and imagining too much) and problems in kitchen or water/pipes issues in home?
2)Did you face immunity issues in childhood such as fever or allergies and your family has mostly govt. workers and highly educated people? And you are studying commerce or law?
3)Mother has arthritis? Or her health is not good? Please mentioned which diseases she had and when. Father is into law/money or enginnerring?
4)Did a salary hike occur between 2019 Mid - 2020 End(something significant related to job? Same time anxeity occured along with health issues to mother or her family?Also did you visit a religious place on mountains or travelled somewhere?
5)2018 around 18th december any significant event occured related to health/family(father)?

[Sijju]

Hello Mam,
1)Do you think situations which will never happen, and are in fear due to it(Overthinking and imagining too much) and problems in kitchen or water/pipes issues in home?
2)Did you face immunity issues in childhood such as fever or allergies and your family has mostly govt. workers and highly educated people? And you are studying commerce or law?
3)Mother has arthritis? Or her health is not good? Please mentioned which diseases she had and when. Father is into law/money or enginnerring?
4)Did a salary hike occur between 2019 Mid - 2020 End(something significant related to job? Same time anxeity occured along with health issues to mother or her family?Also did you visit a religious place on mountains or travelled somewhere?
5)2018 around 18th december any significant event occured related to health/family(father)?

1.No
2.No
3.No
4.No salary hike between this period
5.No,father is good in health,mother too.

How these questions have to do with AVPD i m dealing?

[Buddy]

Hi,

I don't have sex experiences and relationships too so far,i'm not into traveling much,lack of friends and lack of time didn't let me travel.I want so much to make a relationship with a girl but i'm extremely shy and inexperience fearing will be ashamed.Here comes the symptoms of my disorder.

I guessed as much... In fact, I've read somewhere and understand that it would help your cause, if you were to start a relationship - although I understand it might not be an easy task.

Take care...

[Avtar]

Hello Mam,
1)Do you think situations which will never happen, and are in fear due to it(Overthinking and imagining too much) and problems in kitchen or water/pipes issues in home?
2)Did you face immunity issues in childhood such as fever or allergies and your family has mostly govt. workers and highly educated people? And you are studying commerce or law?
3)Mother has arthritis? Or her health is not good? Please mentioned which diseases she had and when. Father is into law/money or enginnerring?
4)Did a salary hike occur between 2019 Mid - 2020 End(something significant related to job? Same time anxeity occured along with health issues to mother or her family?Also did you visit a religious place on mountains or travelled somewhere?
5)2018 around 18th december any significant event occured related to health/family(father)?

1.No
2.No
3.No
4.No salary hike between this period
5.No,father is good in health,mother too.

How these questions have to do with AVPD i m dealing?

I need to understand how the chart is working,
please give me any 2 major events with dates including father's profession.