Venus opposition venus and completing my T-square to a grand cross

[newbieinastrology]

Hello
The synastry is with a guy I met on a dating app a few weeks ago. Is it something significant in synastry? I saw the Grand Cross (in cardinal signs) completing my T square with Venus opposition Venus and Saturn and Jupiter in the mix squaring from my side of the chart. There are also some nice trines to our Venuses: My Venus in Libra trines his Jupiter in Aquarius and his Venus in Aries is trine my Moon in Leo.
I have noticed that since I met this guy I became overly ambitious and wanted change in my life: I started driving classes and I want to change the house I am currently living in. I feel very energized and my self esteem went up. Does it have to do with the synastry or with present transits? What do you think about a potential relationship with this synastry?

I attached our synastry chart.

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[admin]

Hi newbieinastrology,

As you are no doubt aware, accurate time of birth is really important as the Asc., House placements and rulerships, and of course, the Moon too are all vital with regard to interpretations. His birth-time is unknown, and your birth-time appears to be 'rounded off' to the nearest hour, but, as you are clearly a practised astrologer I assume this is actually precise, especially as your Asc. is so close to the end of the Sign of Scorpio and would be in Sag. just 8 minutes after 2:00 pm.

Regardless of his Asc. etc., clearly he's a strong Aries; however, if he was born before 7:30 am, his Moon would be in Aquarius; if after 7:30 am his Moon would be in Pisces. As you know, the Moon is a vital element of any close relationship.

As you say, a Grand Cross can be energising, and clearly you see the best side of Saturn, though it must be admitted that it can cause delays and/or blockages, at least initially. But there is more about this 'energising' matter as your Progressed Asc. in Sag. is in trine to his Natal Sun - all Fire and Go ! Naturally this suggests that you inspire him too. Similarly, his Neptune conj. your Uranus/Saturn/Neptune, opp your Jupiter from Cap. to Cancer suggests that you help to widen his world view in some way, and in doing so, it does the same for you.

His Mercury/Venus opp. your Venus/Mercury would also indeed be energising for you as of course Libra/Aries are naturally opposite in the Zodiac, but also complementary.

Looking at your current Solar Return, Saturn (retro in Pisces) rules the 7th, so you're 'ready' for a Saturnian type of relationship, and certainly this one will help you grow, but it may take time to get it off the ground. Clearly there are issues with regard to this, as no doubt you're aware, or will become so.
However, given his strong Aries and your fiery Progressed Sag. Rising, there isn't much that you won't overcome.

Obviously this is a very general view, not only because it's very early in the relationship but also without his birth time.

Hope this helps.

Best,
Admin.

[newbieinastrology]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

The precise degree or sign of my ascendant will remain a mystery because in my country the health system doesn't keep dates of birth that old. Also in 1989 there was no digital system implemented. Everything was kept in pen and paper and archives are kept a maximum of 15 years. My personality is quite dual and sometimes I do act like a Sagittarius, but most times, and especially with strangers I am pretty closed-off and suspicious (Scorpio like). Many significant relationships were with people who had a planet in the 28th degree of Scorpio, maybe that's where I got this firm belief that 2:00 pm is surely my time of birth. Of course this is all a wild guess and I do take into consideration a Sagittarius ascendant, and also because most of my first house is in Sag.

I do see the best side of Saturn, prolly because I have heavy Saturn in my chart. Saturn is domicile in Capricorn (2nd house) in my natal chart and it aspects all my personal planets except the moon, and also the social planets (Neptune, Uranus and Jupiter). Parents and best friend are Sun in Capricorn. Mother and sister, the people I cared for the most, have their Venus in Capricorn exactly conjunct my Saturn. All my achievements in life were thru hard work, nothing came easy. With all that, I am pretty sure Saturn is really important in my case.

Thank you for your Solar return interpretation. I wasn't using it, but now I think I will.

The relationship doesn't seem to get off the ground. We couldn't synchronize to meet physically yet ))). We live in different cities. But we still keep in touch online. He is working on finishing his house and often shows me pictures with his work in progress (it is a very big house in which he invested a lot of money). We also talk about domestic stuff a lot (his Venus Mercury in my 4t house).

But my energy level is still up, and I have many plans for 2025, so it had nothing to do with him.

Thank you again for the reply.

[astrologerdevanand]

Venus Opposition Venus & T-Square
Venus opposite Venus creates tension between your desires and external influences, particularly in relationships and values. The T-square intensifies this conflict, challenging you to find balance and resolve inner and outer conflicts.

Grand Cross Impact
Completing the T-square to a Grand Cross increases pressure to address imbalances in love, finances, and personal growth, promoting change and self-awareness.

[astrologerdevanand]

When Venus is in opposition to your natal Venus, it indicates a time of emotional tension, especially around relationships, love, and values. This aspect might bring up conflicts or dissatisfaction with how you are expressing affection or receiving it from others. You may feel torn between your desires and what you think others want from you, or there could be challenges in reconciling your values with those of the people around you.

A T-square involving Venus that completes into a Grand Cross adds even more intensity and complexity. A Grand Cross is a challenging configuration where planets form 90-degree angles (squares) and oppositions, creating a push-pull dynamic that demands resolution. It often feels like you're being pulled in multiple directions, and with Venus involved, this could manifest as emotional stress, relationship struggles, or conflicts regarding personal values.

This aspect can be a period of growth, where you are pushed to find balance and make adjustments in how you approach relationships, self-worth, and the pursuit of pleasure. It can feel turbulent, but ultimately, it encourages personal evolution and the integration of opposing forces in your life. The key is to stay grounded, communicate openly, and be willing to reevaluate what truly matters to you in your relationships and self-image.