Synastry magical attraction

[Scorpgirl222]

Hi everybody!

I met this man at my workplace, he's new since the beginning of june
I immediately felt an attraction, and I think it was mutual, i couldnt explain

WE talked a few Times, but were not alone so it was kind of superficial... Everybody keeps talking to me about him and thé fact that he is single, and that's funny because I'm Shy so I didn't even talk about him to anyone....

I dreamt of him last night. I was sad yesterday evening, and in my dream he was there and he just got naturally close to me, WE hugged and that felt pretty good and comforting. It was like an evidence, just as if we couldnt help it but be naturally drawn to each othee
And I rarely dream of people I barely know... That felt kind of magical

Could you please tell me what you think about our synastry ? I dont know the hour he was born unfortunately... But that gives an idea

My birth chart (im a cancer scorpio rising) and his (he's an aquarius)

[Scorpgirl222]

And our synastry

[Scorpgirl222]

PS: I was born 28/06/1996 in Nanterre (next to Paris in France) AT 5:35 pm and he was born 23/01/1996 in Lyon in France

[admin]

Hi Scorpgirl222,

Thank you for posting the diagrams.

Do you have his time of birth ?
This is important in order to find his Ascendant and placement of Planets; also for the exact degree/Sign of his Moon.

If you don't have this, I'll go ahead but obviously it will be incomplete in doing so.

Best,
Admin.

[Scorpgirl222]

Hello,

No I dont, I'm sorry

But thank you for the elements you will still give me

Have a nice day

[admin]

Hi Scorpgirl,

No wonder everyone is talking about him ! His Sun is conjunct Uranus and Neptune (Mercury too, widely). This is a very powerful and magnetic combination, and more so as...it is in sextile to Pluto and currently, transiting Pluto is conjunct his Sun/Uranus, and sextile his Pluto. Wow !

All of the above in his chart is in sextile to your Moon/Pluto conjunction in Sagittarius, and as the Moon is relevant to your fundamental needs the attraction to him is very powerful indeed, and certainly explains why you dreamt about him - not least of all as the Moon has much to do with our unconscious and therefore our dreams too. Add that you have Scorpio Rising with Pluto ruling your chart, and right there is the power of this particular attraction for you.

We can also count his Mars in Aquarius as being in range of conjunction with his Sun, and all of this would suggest that he is very much his "own person", and strongly individual, especially at this time (with the Pluto transits mentioned previously).

His Mars is in trine to your Mars/Venus and there is your instant attraction to him. This might well give him an attraction to you. Usually Venus/Mars can be quite impulsive 'in love', especially as your Venus/Mars is on the 7th/8th House cusp.
However, clearly your Scorpio Rising holds you back and contributes to your "shyness"; and this along with Saturn which, although in impulsive Aries, is in your 5th House (partly relevant to "love affairs"), and in sextile to your Mars/Venus.

His Venus is in Pisces, which gives a dreamy quality, adding to his attractiveness. (His Moon is also - somewhere between 6 - 18 degs. of Pisces).

One issue here is that his Saturn is in square to your Mercury, and this can create communication problems, such as a hesitancy to "speak up", probably by both of you. It generates a kind of awkwardness, at least initially and until you are more used to each other through more casual daily contact. (Especially when you are quite dazzled by him and perhaps have him up on a pedestal).

Obviously there's much more, but it's difficult to go further without his birth-time.
However, it's possible that this relationship may grow slowly over a period of time, and then...suddenly move forward very fast.

I'm intrigued to know how this relationship unfolds, and especially if you are able to discover his time of birth.

Hope this helps, and if you have any further questions please do ask and I'll try to assist.

Best,
Admin.

[Scorpgirl222]

Hello Admin,

Thanks again for your answer, this is very kind.

I agree with you, because I couldnt stop myself from thinking about it even though I tried to put some distance and keep "reason"

I will try to Ask him, because I have to Say that our company organized an event last week, and I made the first step and talked to him. As I said, I couldnt tell why but I felt that the physical attraction was shared and it was a great first contact.

Since that evening, we saw each other a few Times (at our workplace) and we talked about everything and nothing (I don't know if in english that means the same as in french).
And my impression is confirmed, when we are alone, I feel shynness for both of us but the will to keep talking to each other. It is natural and pretty slow yes, but we have common interests, so it's easier. We happened to discuss on social networks this afternoon while we were both at work, and there is this immediate sense of intimacy I couldn't explain. I feel like I Can be myself and like I dont have to do much but breathe and that is so unusual for me.

He seems to be intrigued too, so that's encouraging for the moment, and we have the possibility to meet during our holidays. At least, he suggested it as we'll both be at the same time at the same place. We'll see !

He's quite neptunian I think with his Moon/venus in pisces + his Mercury/Sun/Neptune conjunction. Do you think that this could be linked with my solar return you kindly analyzed for me, and in particular the fact that I have this Neptune, ruler of my SR 7th in my 7th conjunct my Moon? I don't know, it's just an idea

Thank you so much again, and I promise as soon as I know his birth Time, I will let you know haha !!

Have a nice evening!
Marine

[Scorpgirl222]

I'm intrigued to know how this relationship unfolds, and especially if you are able to discover his time of birth.

Hello Admin,

I finally got his birth Time! He was born at 9:45 am so he's a pisces ascendant (i'm not surprised)
We finally had a drink and it was nice, I feel a great intimacy between us, I think that's because he has his rising/Moon/venus/saturn in my 4th ! And I also dreamt of him many Times since I first wrote this post. The dreams seem so Real this is really confusing

I noticed in my previous relationships that the pisces energy is really "intoxicating" for me.... So i'm a bit afraid

Have a nice day!

[admin]

Hi Scorpiogirl,

Oh yes, very Piscean, and with Venus and Moon conjunct the Asc. in Pisces too ! (Along with Saturn Rising in Pisces in wide conjunction with his Moon).

A lot more of course, and also going on between your charts so please give me a day or two to sort through it.

Best,
Admin.

[admin]

Hi Scorpiogirl,

Now of course I can set up a 'proper' Composite chart, and here the planet of expansion and growth (Jupiter) is conjunct the Asc. Of itself, this is very positive and suggests the relationship can grow and expand...as long as neither of you expect too much of each other. Whatever else it suggests it indicates the ability to 'forgive and forget' when difficulties arise, or should feelings be hurt during any arguments or disagreements.
This can also give a tendency for many healthy discussions - which may also be 'arguments', or perhaps rather 'heated discussions'.

The Comp. Moon/Neptune rising emphasises the idealism, as well as putting the relationship (each other) on a 'pedestal', and although in many ways this is beautiful, you both need to be aware that if and when your goals differ too much, you will both need to accept this. Something about your individual "pasts" (whether individually in this life, or in a 'previous life') needs work, as these 'pasts' may clash at some deep level and result in arguments that aren't really relevant to any current disagreements.

At the root of the Composite (4th House) lie Sun/Venus - a beautiful and loving/affectionate basis for the relationship.

Really it seems that the hurdle to go forward may be because the Past can interfere with the Future progress of the relationship in some way. Perhaps it is that either or both of you react negatively to any issues because of previous relationship difficulties. This means it's important for you both to ensure that any issues that crop up with each other are not actually based on past hurts, or on previous relationships.

In other words, in order to move forward, you will both need to look at any situation, as it is at that moment, and not influenced by the past in any way whether it's some distant/previous relationship together, or because of any of your own individual past relationships.
Basically, it's that old adage: "Be Here...Now !".

Oh, and by the way, in your Natal charts, his Asc. also falls in your 4th House whilst his Venus/Moon trine your Asc - Beautiful. Your Scorpio Asc. falls in his 8th (Scorpio's "natural" House) so perhaps you have the capacity to deepen his sense of what 'relationship' can really mean.

Hope this helps and if you have any further questions, please do ask and I'll do my best to help.

Best,
Admin.