Should I give up on my quest for justice?

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Perdita
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Should I give up on my quest for justice?

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My father died in hospital on August 3 last 2023 after a three week admission. He was admitted with sudden onset breathlessness on 11 July 2023. Not only was he misdiagnosed, but he was unkindly treated, culminating in his death. In particular, he was deprived of oxygen and his and my requests for him to be given adequate oxygen were denied. Two nurses in particular were very cruel to him - they would enter his room repeatedly at night and turn his oxygen right down, causing him to de-saturate and wake up, gasping for breath. I have put my life on hold and spent the last year trying to unravel the details of what exactly happened in the lead up to his death and in trying to obtain some modicum of justice for him.

I find it very painful that my father’s life was treated as if it were of such little value, especially as he was always such a hard-working and generous person. Unfortunately, however, my relentless quest for justice has been so stressful that it has started to affect my health. I feel that I am up against the system and that everything seems to be stacked against me. Although I have made progress in that I have unearthed a great deal of previously unknown information concerning his treatment, unfortunately, there is no sign that I will ever be able to obtain justice.

For example, although the Coroner is involved, he seems very uninterested, and, when I applied to court for my father’s medical records, the judge was unsympathetic, even though I was legally entitled to the records. I feel that the Police have let me down badly because my father’s ill treatment should have been investigated, but they are not remotely interested either. My father was a retired surgeon and an exceptionally meticulous and conscientious person. It saddens me that, when he needed medical care himself, he was effectively denied it, purely because he was elderly. In the end, he died an agonising death and this was completely unnecessary.

What I should like to know is whether or not my quest for justice will ultimately prove successful or if I am simply harming myself by fighting a battle that I will never win. I am not interested in obtaining compensation, but I am interested in legal accountability and in ensuring that those who hurt my father are held to account and prevented from harming others.

I was born in Neath, West Glamorgan, South Wales, U.K. on 1 March 1967 at 20.10.

Many thanks for reading and for any insights.
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Perdita, please accept my condolences, it is a great loss that you, and your community, have experienced. I have looked at your chart and can see that you loved him. Unfortunately I don't think you will gain any headway with an investigation, it is best to rejoice in his life and then find peace. It is hard to let go but for your heath say to him that it is time, time to heal those wounds and let him go. God bless, it is a hard thing to do but I think that it is needed now.
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Noel, thank you so much for taking the time to reply and for your kindness to me. It is very difficult to let go because I feel a sense of duty to my father. As in, what kind of daughter am I if I let this go? Could I ask you please if my chart definitely shows that any legal action I bring in relation to this matter will prove unsuccessful? The reason I ask is that I have just issued proceedings for a declaration that my father’s human rights were breached and so am to some extent now locked in. Thank you, once again, for looking at my chart.
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Unfortunately I don't see success in your legal case, sorry.
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I'm truly sorry for your loss and the pain you're experiencing. Seeking legal accountability is important, but it's also crucial to prioritize your health. Consider consulting a specialized medical malpractice lawyer to guide you through the process and relieve some of the burden. Additionally, seeking support from a mental health professional can help you cope with the stress and grief. Balancing your quest for justice with self-care is essential for your well-being.
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Thank you, Astrokarthikji. Do you think that, if I am able to find a lawyer, I might attain some success in this litigation? As you rightly say, accountability is very important. Unfortunately, however, it seems to be extremely difficult to achieve and I have been encountering obstacle after obstacle after obstacle.
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Perdita wrote: Mon Jul 22, 2024 6:56 pm My father died in hospital on August 3 last 2023 after a three week admission.
Today is the first anniversary of his death.

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Perdita wrote: Fri Aug 02, 2024 9:11 pm Thank you, Astrokarthikji. Do you think that, if I am able to find a lawyer, I might attain some success in this litigation? As you rightly say, accountability is very important. Unfortunately, however, it seems to be extremely difficult to achieve and I have been encountering obstacle after obstacle after obstacle.
You can face obstacles in life due to tainted Mercury ruling self and Sun ruling government placed in Aquarius.
These are not favorable placement could land you in arguments, misunderstandings and litigation. Don't be in a haste.
I had studied both charts and time was indeed difficult for father.

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Hi Sujit! Thank you for your reply. Yes, today is the first anniversary. I didn’t know that I had a tainted mercury! That doesn’t sound very good. It’s true, though, that life is never smooth and there is always one difficulty after another. If you have the opportunity, please could you explain why the time was difficult for my father? When he was in the hospital, I never thought he wouldn’t be coming out. Because of this, I feel that I was less vigilant than I should have been. Looking back, I realise that he really suffered there and that I let him down. He brought me up as a single parent and I owe him such a lot because he did so much for me right up until the end. The other thing is that we thought it was his heart, and it was his heart, but we were told that it was his lungs that were the problem. Because of this, his heart was never treated.
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