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Need help in Marriage delay

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Hi
My friends marriage is getting delayed. She is very good. Can someone look at her chart and let us know when she ll get married and how her married life will be ?
Birth details,
Gender - Female
DOB-19/Oct/1985
POB - Kajang, Selangor, Malaysia
TOB - 11:50 AM

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Hi
Can someone help me please ?
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Hi can some kind hearted person help me please ?
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Hello sunshine7
What are her religious beliefs?
Is she wearing any gemstones?
What has been said by other astrologers ?
What has been done by family to help girl get married ?
What remedial spiritual measures have been taken ?
Any caste restrictions ?
Pls answer in best possible way as it helps to assess better.
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Hi PEM ji,
She is a hindu and she is religious. Goes to temples in malaysia and india. She is not wearing any gem stone.

Other astrologer told that she has 4 planets in her 11th house which is delaying her marriage. Also some told girls has 3 major planets debilitated which is affecting her.

Family tried looking for alliance but nothing worked out. Recently a guy from India approached the girl for marriage via matrimony site. guy and girl like each other very much but guys father is not accepting the alliance as the girl is a foriegner (guys details: pob- vellore, TN, tob- 1:40pm, dob-21-jul-1985). Not sure if this alliance will work out. If this works out we all will be very happy for the girl.

Girls family regularly visits temple in tamil nadu and do pooja. No specific rituals done.

There is no caste restrictions.
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Hello sunshine7
Thank you for answers and appreciate your concern for this friend.
Unfortunately, the important significators of the chart are weak or
afflicted and hence the delay.

The present planetary period of Moon MD is not conducive until the end March 2023.
After this period it will be comparatively a better period.

Presently malefic Saturn is also transiting Lagna. Important significators of marriage
are also poorly placed in Navamsa. Past life credit is lacking according to this tob.
Dreams, wishes & desires for fulfillment will not be easy.

There are agents/deities of these planets, if prayed to or worshiped continuously and
seriously can be appeased to give these blessings when deserved and by paving the way
forward.

There are indications for out of caste/foreign influence for partnership.

It is now up to her to cry out to the precise energy sources for help, seriously to brighten her life.
NB. It is not easy to communicate when done for a third party and only so much one can do to help.
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But you havent mentioned if she is already commited but the guy postpones asking her hand or if there is anyone in her life and she is worried that nobody is going to appear.

Talking strictly from european astrology perspective: she shouldnt hurry. Because she is already exposed naturally to all sort of emotional insatisfactions. She has the DSC in Cancer (and indeed its an indicator that the person is prone to forming a family) but the ruler of her DSC is in Capricorn - the sign governed by Saturn, indeed it could be a delay, but I wouldnt worry the marriage woulndnt happen sooner or later.
Why I worry is that the ruler of DSC, Moon, is squared by Venus in Libra - this is the source of her emotional insatisfaction, and if she pushes the things, more likely that the effect of the aspect (emotional insatisfaction, emotional compromises, feeling unhappy and caught in something she doesnt enjoy actually, or simply the marriage will not feed her ideal of marriage and she will be disapointed to see de difference between what she imagined/wanted and what she receives) is going to be felt stronger (since Venus squares both the DSC and the ruler of the DSC).

Therefore:
- if there is any man in her life she is engaged with but he postpones asking for her hand - I would like to see his chart as well (if you can provide with his details)....maybe we can make their synastry and see if things really work between them, maybe he doesnt love her and isnt sure if he really wants her for the long run.
- if there is anyone in her life but she is waiting worried for someone, chill... and, on the contrary, she must ponder very well before entering a marriage and not take the first opportunity. Relax, wait patiently and make this step just if she is completely sure of what she feels and not pushed by social norms, desperation due to the age ("nobody is going marry me") or other reasons.
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Hi Iriishka,
Thanks for your Findings.
Yes. She is engaged with a man but delay is from the guys parents. Guy seems to genuienly love her.
Guys details are
DOB - 21 july 1985
POB - Vellore, Tamil Nadu, India
TOB - 01:41 PM
Please help to check if this will work out

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Pem wrote: Mon Jan 08, 2018 10:55 pm Hello sunshine7
Thank you for answers and appreciate your concern for this friend.
Unfortunately, the important significators of the chart are weak or
afflicted and hence the delay.

The present planetary period of Moon MD is not conducive until the end March 2023.
After this period it will be comparatively a better period.

Presently malefic Saturn is also transiting Lagna. Important significators of marriage
are also poorly placed in Navamsa. Past life credit is lacking according to this tob.
Dreams, wishes & desires for fulfillment will not be easy.

There are agents/deities of these planets, if prayed to or worshiped continuously and
seriously can be appeased to give these blessings when deserved and by paving the way
forward.

There are indications for out of caste/foreign influence for partnership.

It is now up to her to cry out to the precise energy sources for help, seriously to brighten her life.
NB. It is not easy to communicate when done for a third party and only so much one can do to help.
Regards
Thanks PEM ji
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