new people in a group- new synastry- please help reading it :)
Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2017 6:08 am
Hello,
i started working on a new project with some people. a few weeks ago.
the group consists of a taurus woman, taurus man, 3 aries woman ( including me) and one girl that i dont know her sign. but probably its a Libra.
So from the beginnig i saw that Taurus woman born 16.05.1992 wanted to be a leader. i am a prson who tests people at first and doesnt open very quickly in a new group. so i was a bit silent i started working with them but i didnt open up easily.
she is a person that is always stressed. with her posture she shows that she likes or dislikes something/someone. she is tiny skinny intelligent but very strict. she wants t be a leader but on the other hand she puts a big big pressure into the group that i dont like... i feel bad and over tested or over 'drove' somehow even after 2 hours of talking about the project with her.
when she comes into the room she must do 10 times more things than me to be visible, she is very loud, very pushy but generally work with her is professional and she is very honest. she told me being drunk that she sees i kind of hasitate about her but she doesnt want me to feel uncomfortable because we are a group team. but she told me she has a very strong character.
i just wanted to ask if i will have bigger problems with her?
her and my synastry
there is also another woman born 21.03.1992 the same day as me but 2 years younger. she is more caring she is more mature and doesnt put so much pressure and i dont feel pressure from her.
generaly last week she told me that she FELT that i was feeling very weird and uncomfortable among new people ( new meeting of a group with other business group). i didnt want my behaviour to be visible so i was hiding it very much but actually she was the only one that 'saw my behaviour' and felt me even though i didnt want .
generally she likes me and i like her but i think that i am her inspiration kind of. i did a lot of things that now she wants to be doing including working at film industry, set design, multimedia cooperation not only architecture itself.
so everytime we meet she asks me about that but its ok. but sometimes ihave a feeling that she wants to take it from me. the thing i was working hard for almost 2 years without noone's help struggling with reality and so one. noone helped me. parents told me they will never help me with my career. that its my path they only can take thumbs up.
but her parents are notable architects in my city , she is not stressed of being poor. she has a good 'background' and she follows my steps somehow. and sometimes this is what makes me insecure , maybe not crazy but i kind of step back and dont tell her some things because i feel like she would do the same... or am i only feeling insecure?
what do you think. should i be worried that she wants to take sth from me?
maybe i am just overanalysing and overreacting ( as always)?
i started working on a new project with some people. a few weeks ago.
the group consists of a taurus woman, taurus man, 3 aries woman ( including me) and one girl that i dont know her sign. but probably its a Libra.
So from the beginnig i saw that Taurus woman born 16.05.1992 wanted to be a leader. i am a prson who tests people at first and doesnt open very quickly in a new group. so i was a bit silent i started working with them but i didnt open up easily.
she is a person that is always stressed. with her posture she shows that she likes or dislikes something/someone. she is tiny skinny intelligent but very strict. she wants t be a leader but on the other hand she puts a big big pressure into the group that i dont like... i feel bad and over tested or over 'drove' somehow even after 2 hours of talking about the project with her.
when she comes into the room she must do 10 times more things than me to be visible, she is very loud, very pushy but generally work with her is professional and she is very honest. she told me being drunk that she sees i kind of hasitate about her but she doesnt want me to feel uncomfortable because we are a group team. but she told me she has a very strong character.
i just wanted to ask if i will have bigger problems with her?
her and my synastry
there is also another woman born 21.03.1992 the same day as me but 2 years younger. she is more caring she is more mature and doesnt put so much pressure and i dont feel pressure from her.
generaly last week she told me that she FELT that i was feeling very weird and uncomfortable among new people ( new meeting of a group with other business group). i didnt want my behaviour to be visible so i was hiding it very much but actually she was the only one that 'saw my behaviour' and felt me even though i didnt want .
generally she likes me and i like her but i think that i am her inspiration kind of. i did a lot of things that now she wants to be doing including working at film industry, set design, multimedia cooperation not only architecture itself.
so everytime we meet she asks me about that but its ok. but sometimes ihave a feeling that she wants to take it from me. the thing i was working hard for almost 2 years without noone's help struggling with reality and so one. noone helped me. parents told me they will never help me with my career. that its my path they only can take thumbs up.
but her parents are notable architects in my city , she is not stressed of being poor. she has a good 'background' and she follows my steps somehow. and sometimes this is what makes me insecure , maybe not crazy but i kind of step back and dont tell her some things because i feel like she would do the same... or am i only feeling insecure?
what do you think. should i be worried that she wants to take sth from me?
maybe i am just overanalysing and overreacting ( as always)?