Is this relationship possible??

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Is this relationship possible??

Post by Bobo999 » Wed Feb 06, 2019 2:03 pm

Hello everybody
I was just wondering, do I have a chance with this boy, I'm soo in love with him... :D Does he feel anything or is it all in my head? Can anyone please, help me with this? I'm blue, he is red in chart.

http://imgur.com/kR7I9r7

Thank you sooo much!!! :D :) :D :)

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Re: Is this relationship possible??

Post by admin » Thu Feb 07, 2019 8:54 am

Hi Bobo999,

Thanks for posting the link to the chart but I need birth data (dates, places and times of birth) as I prefer to set up my own charts for synastry matters.

If you prefer this information to remain private, you can 'pm' me with the data.

Also, a few more details about the relationship would be very helpful and aid the synthesis (for e.g., when you met, etc.).

Thank you.

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Re: Is this relationship possible??

Post by Bobo999 » Thu Feb 07, 2019 12:40 pm

Thank you!
I have sent you PM.

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Re: Is this relationship possible??

Post by admin » Wed Feb 13, 2019 11:20 am

Hi Bobo and thank you for the information.

Unfortunately it’s difficult to give a full interpretation without his time of birth as it’s not possible to know the position of his Moon – a vital ingredient of any relationship as it indicates our emotional needs; also there’s the matter of his Ascendant Sign, which can’t be known without time of birth and which is also a very important element.

Looking at the aspects of various planets between your charts, certainly there is a strong attraction as your Venus’s are in conjunction and sitting right on your Ascendant, and as both Venus’s and your Asc. are in Scorpio, there is also a strong sexual attraction. Added to this both your Venus’s are in trine to your Mars – increasing that subtle (or not so subtle) sexual pull. Of course, there's more to this than just the sexual undercurrent.

Your Pluto in Scorpio (ruler of your Ascendant) is in square to his Mars, which intensifies the connection and gives the feeling of a need ‘to have/to possess’ the other; and, as you are finding, can lead to obsession. Added to this, your Sun in Libra is ruled by Venus (in Scorpio) and as Venus also rules your 7th House (relationships), any relationship you focus on can become ‘the meaning of Life’ to you.

Your Moon is conjunct his Sun/Mercury which, of itself gives a sense of ‘perfect balance’; as if you complete each other. However, this is in square to his Saturn so he erects this barrier, perhaps even unconsciously. (Saturn can hold us back or result in us feeling restricted in some way). In turn, you may feel on some level that he may hurt you emotionally, or that there is some part of him that is cold or that you can’t reach. It can also indicate circumstances that prevent the relationship coming to fruition. Added to this your Saturn is in square to his Nodal axis (which is relevant to unions), and this could mean that the meeting has occurred ‘at the wrong time’ – and he is, after all, already in a relationship.

In the Composite chart (again this can’t be complete without his time of birth), you met when Neptune was in trine to composite Mercury, which perhaps gave an intuitive and sensitive link or connection between you.

Also in the Composite, Pluto is in square to Saturn, which suggests again a blockage or difficulty in the relationship actually forming or coming to fruition. On each occasion you meet, something is in the way, resulting in one or the other of you feeling cold or rejected. And for you with Mars in Cancer and all that Scorpio, any feeling of rejection can cut very deeply; and though you are able (or appear to be able) to recover quickly, emotional wounds can take a quite a while to heal.

I realise this doesn’t sound hopeful and I can’t nor wouldn’t say that the relationship will never happen. However, I suggest caution as all that Scorpio and Pluto could draw you into a situation from which either or both of you will find it hard to extricate yourselves. I suspect that something will happen quite soon - one way or the other - but...be very careful how you proceed, otherwise you could find yourself in a whole lot of pain.

I would add here that Neptune (planet of illusion and dreams) is currently sitting on the cusp of your 5th House which will, for some time to come, inspire you in many ways as it can bring out creative talents and urges during its passage through at area. However, this can also result in a craving for ‘romance’, and can result in idealising relationships. Having said that, it can also bring some ‘higher’ or ‘spiritual’ relationships. So, just bear this in mind with regard to this relationship, and in the future.

I’d also add that currently, practical and realistic Saturn is helping you to see the reality of this situation, (exactly as you have indicated in your words), so I feel that this will help you, if you can take advantage of this realism whilst it’s there.

Hope this helps and if you have any further questions, please do ask and I’ll try to assist.

Best,
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Re: Is this relationship possible??

Post by Bobo999 » Wed Feb 13, 2019 1:29 pm

Omg, you are so good at this! You did great job in describing me and this situation...Unfortunately you confirmed my doubts about him and me...thank you so much, I appreciate it!!!

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Re: Is this relationship possible??

Post by Bobo999 » Fri Feb 15, 2019 2:11 pm

Hi...
I've been thinking about what you said...that something will happen quite soon and that I could find myself in a whole lot of pain. Can you tell me what do you mean exactly? And how should I react?

And if I'm not asking too much, can you tell me when will I find a man who will respond to my feelings? How I can recognize him? Who will he be?

Thanks so much for your time and effort... :) :) :)

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